Tuesday, February 9, 2010

February A Month of Love...



LOVE the Four lettered word...

We love the word L-O-V-E. Love conjures up a flurry of warm tingling feelings of sharing, caring, trust and understanding. Love is deep and emotional, yet shy and kind. Love is sweet, and sexy and has a hint of mistery. Remember God is love share His love with someone today.

The Color RED!
Sunday, February 14th is Valentine's Day. Traditionally, this day is celebrated as a day to express your love outwardly with a poem, love notes, simple gestures directed to that special someone in your life. Parents and children alike exchange sentiments with gifts wrapped in red ribbons, oversized teddy bears, heart shaped cards, heart shaped balloons, candy and of course Red ROSES!

Are you still searching for the perfect gift...? Shoot us a email: we can help! rachelle@so-fabuluxe.com

Don't forget to send your personalized message either via mail or in person. Make someone's day memorable and unforgettable. Did you get engaged on Valentine's Day, let us know, we will feature your unique story in next month's blog. "She said Yes!"





In the Black: Remembering Black History Month


Remembering our past helps us forge towards our future. African-Americans have made great strides in fighting for civil rights, equality and justice for all. Historical contributions to American history has left and indeliable mark by black inventors, lawyers, doctors and scientists.
February is the month we celebrate great men, President's Washington and Lincoln birthday. Reflections of Dr. Martin Luther King's speech, "I have a Dream", has paved the way for our children to become future President's of the United States.

A salute to Black history, may it forever change history. Let freedom ring, let freedom ring, thank God Almighty we are free at last!


Enjoy the month of LOVE!


Rachelle Jones, MBA

So Fabuluxe!

a couture event styling boutique & luxurious invitations

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

It's A New Year, A New Decade: Welcome 2010!

Welcome to A New Decade


I'm so excited for new opportunities in 2010! An opportunity to share fresh ideas, couture event designs, fanciful invitations, and celebrate new beginnings.


This year promises to unfold a multitude of change. In order for change to take place in your life, one must embrace change. Be open to a positive movement, reflect on the past, press on towards the future.

Welcome 2010 with great expectation. We are in a new decade, the slate has been wiped clean.

So how will you use your influence in 2010? How will your success stories be told?

Wishing you a very Happy New Year! Here's to finding love, happiness and hope for a brighter tomorrow.

Here's to a brand new you!

Rachelle Jones, MBA
So Fabuluxe!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Championship Game of Life: 2009 in Review
















Business Ethics: 101

They say there are two sides to every story, and then there's the truth. There is perspective and then there is your reality. We need more truth seekers, instead of people who pass judgment against others. Business is like life -- constantly changing, but in the end it's all about true relationships. Cultivating healthy relationships requires an investment of time, effort and skill. It requires honesty, patience and authenticity. The year 2009, will be remembered as a year of economic turmoil, heartache and ethical scandals. Yet, the voice of a true champions will always rise to the occasion, adversity, trials and tribulations only come to make you stronger. In the face of opposition, you must lay aside everything that will hold you back to truly prevail. Influential people and ordinary people made history this year. What are you choosing to leave behind...in 2009, and how will you leave your mark in 2010?

2009: A Year in Review

The year 2009, was an extremely trying year. Many Americans suffered loss of employment; loss of homes; and loss of lives due to the war sickness and violence. We witnessed top executives of insurance companies like AIG and major corporations on Wall Street receiving billion dollar bailouts, because of deceit and greed. The Madoff scam defrauded many individuals of their retirement with a Ponzi scheme. Entertainment, the arts and sports were impacted by the sudden passing of two great icons, Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett, both gone too soon, on the same day. Their contribution to history spans several generations and decades, they made such an impact to our pop-culture and will be greatly missed.


Champions of every sport experienced moral failure, from Michael Vick, Chris Brown, Alex Rodriquez, to Tiger Woods all men who fell from grace. The "balloon boy" hoax, parents committed deceitful acts of fraud, played on the emotions of the American people. All of these acts are forgivable, it's a matter of choice, telling the truth seems like the unpopular thing to do. Just go against the grain and stand for truth, or you will fall for anything!


Yes We Did: 2009!


2009 started out very hopeful with an outlook for change in America. We watched, cheered and celebrated the inauguration of the first African-American President of the United States, President Barack Obama take office. This moment in history has left an indelible mark on our hearts and minds forever. Many never imagined they would witness the day we would elect the first Black President to the oval office in this lifetime.

Will change ever come...yes, remain hopeful change will become reality soon!






The Truth in What's in a Name: EVERYTHING!

We would like to take this opportunity to set the record straight. As discussed early, business ethics is important in every aspect of business. What's in a name, from our standpoint, everything. Our business name is our brand, we are one in the same. So Fabuluxe! is a couture event design firm. We specialize in creating original, one-of-a-kind, luxury invitations and couture event designs for weddings and social events. We have been involved in the event industry for the past 15 years, orchestrating and implementing corporate events and social affairs, nonprofit galas.

Last year, we were involved in a trademark dispute, wherein another company falsely accused us of infringing on their company name, and trademark. This was far from the truth. The funny thing discovered, after we investigated, we located several company's using a similar version of the word Fabuluxe. This is not uncommon in the wedding industry, you might find similar or same named companies in different geographic areas, all using the same name. Fancy That!

Now, this statement is not a matter of who's right or who's wrong, not meant to point fingers or become a bridal war of words, it's a matter of truth and the truth will always prevail. So let the scales of justice reign.

US Trademark Rules

Without getting into all the details of the matter, our company was first to file for trademark protection with the United States Trademark Patent Office (USTPO) to protect our own intellectual property. Anyone can oppose others' application with the USPTO to cancel a trademark registration. Examiner's will consider who used the mark first, and who used it legally. This matter was ultimately brought before the Trademark Trial and Appeals Board (TTAB) and a final decision was made, and our company did prevail. Evidence, statements and documents are all public record.

So how did this all happen, if another company was using a particular term or word first? Glad you asked. The US Trademark law regulates registered and unregistered trademarks. It also regulates service marks, or common law marks, although they have less legal authority. Trademark law protects the creator of a unique phrase, design, image, word, name, or logo, so that other (legal entities) cannot use them.

The opposer, insisted they had an exclusive right to use the word "Fabuluxe" which was in error. In fact, their business name was not lawfully being used in commerce as stated, this is not slander, it's a statement of fact. Operating a business is a legal entity, if a person wants to start a business, they must decide on how the entity will be set-up, either sole proprietor, limited liability corp. or "C" corporation. A person must first file, what is called a Fictitious Business Name or (DBA) Doing Business As, if its other than your own legal name. The following words can not be used in conjunction with filing a DBA, LLC, Limited, LTD, Corp., or Inc. A separate application must be filed with the Secretary of State within your own state to indicate you are in fact a recognized Corporation.

Damaging information admitted in the opposer's statements were brought to light: 1) a fictitious business name was not legally filed 2) The other company committed fraud by misrepresenting their company, as a corporation to the public, (INC.), and to the USTPO, the opposer was never incorporated and subsequently, denied Articles of Incorporation by the Secretary of State of Georgia 3) After applying for the trademark protection, they attempted to incorporate their business, only to be denied and listed, as in bad standing.

Today, in America, lying on official government applications is a federal crime, in just about any business context and every business person or executive must be aware of their state of affairs.
This past November, this same company had an opportunity to come clean and tell the truth, they choose to remain silent and omitted the true facts of this case.

So, you see, you can you use your influence for good or evil. The fact that wedding industry leaders, reported this false information, as a way to influence others from their their blog posts, was in error. Do you follow the blog of "popular opinion", or do you make your own decisions based on truth and facts. Truth is, it's illegal to make inaccurate claims about your business, which influences a customer's decision, behavior or compels them to buy from you based on incorrect advertising. Does Truth really matter? You decide, if any company, misstates facts of incorporation, led the public and consumers to believe they were a legal corporation and they were not, would you still do business or be affiliated with them, do you consider it lying? If you were this person's friend, would you tell them to tell the truth...? Just food for thought.



Happy New Year!


I do believe everything in life happens for a reason, and a season, whether it be good or bad. No one is perfect, and people do make mistakes. God opens doors that no man can close, He also closes those same doors that no man can open. He brings people in and out of our lives on purpose, for a purpose. What's for you is for YOU. No one can come and just take it away. Copying, duplicating others people style, or business model is not our way of business. We are comfortable in our own skin, just being who we are. The creators of original, theme designs. We only use high-quality products to produce events of excellence.
Lessons learned with this situation, true love never fails and truth always prevails. To extend forgiveness to others, one must be forgiven. You never know when you will need that same grace and mercy. Forgiveness must be done from a pure heart of love. It is our sincere desire that these real life examples, will help others who are thinking about starting a business, incorporating or trademarking a word, logo or phrase. We wish the other company and their colleagues well in 2010, and in their future business endeavors.


Our Top Five Challenges for 2010: Words to Live by

  1. Our mantra for 2010, to operate from truth, passion and love. Be a person of my word.


  2. Help others reach their goals in creating memorable event designs and luxury invitations that sets the tone for every life celebration,


  3. Volunteer our time, money and talents. Giving back to the community we live in is our passion, our purpose our destiny,


  4. Give people the benefit of the doubt before judging, forgiveness and love never fails,


  5. Leave the negative thoughts and negative people behind, in 2009! Make a positive Mark in 2010, that can not be erased!

Live your best life in 2010 and beyond!


Happy New Year - may you find love, joy, peace and prosperity!

Rachelle Jones, So Fabuluxe!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Celebrate the Season of Giving!



It's that time of year when family and friends gather from far and near. Christmas is a special time of sharing and caring. A time to reflect on the year and celebrate the season. Currently, back east some are fortunate to have a true "White Christmas". Oh don't cry for us here in sunny Southern California, we can enjoy the 70 degree weather on Christmas day, head to the mountains for skiing and then to the beach all in the same day! lol

We want to take this opportunity to expess our deepest gratitude and thankfulness to our friends, colleagues and vendors, we have met some wonderful people who we now call friends, via cyberspace, social media networks such as: facebook, twitter, and Linkedin. It is our true belief that great things will be unfolded in the coming New Year 2010. Looking forward to spending this holiday season in a spirit of true love...give the gift of love, as LOVE never fails.

From our house to yours wishing you a very Merry Christmas, Hannakah, and Kwanzaa!




Peace, Love and Joy

Rachelle Jones, MBA

So Fabuluxe!















Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Giving Thanks Always

Just Say Thanks!

November is traditionally known as the harvest month, it delivers succulent aromas and sweet scents of freshly baked apple pie, garlic mashed potatoes and golden roasted butterballs or tofu if you prefer. As the seasons change, the crisp air blows the autumn leaves full of vibrant burnt orange colors, chocolate browns hues mixed with soft mauves and rich plums. Ahhh... the holidays are upon us.

Thanksgiving is a time to reflect on our lives, our families, reaffirm our aspirations and goals. It's an opportunity to gather over the banquet table with loved ones and friends from far and near. Despite all the negativity and perils in the world, we can still find a ray of hope, through a smile, a hug, or a note of love. More importantly, setting aside this special day to reminiscence over the entire year's events many bring prospective and clarity of being thankful for all the little things in live.

Being thankful for your family, health, wealth and for all the good God has bestowed upon us. this is the true meaning of Thanksgiving.

This year do the {unexpected} for someone else. Pay-it-forward by reaching out to a family with special needs, volunteer to feed families at a local shelter. Send a delicious care package to some of our military families that can not be with their families during the holidays. Everyone is dealing with some type of difficult situation. Let's be less concerned with ourselves and show more concern for others. There is no right or wrong way to show love or care.

So as you celebrate the holidays with your families this year, remember the families fighting for this great nation, remember those who have gave their lives and families grieving the lost of lost of loved ones during the holidays. Spread some joy and love. Making a difference this year by adding healing to hurts or misunderstanding and simply disagreements within your own familiy circle during this time. We each need one another, it's about fellowship and it's about relationships. Be the difference for change.

Thanksgiving tablesetting is a perfect example of the beautiful harvest colors, gold, aurburn, rich brown. {Photo courtesy of HGTV}
From our house to yours Happy Thanksgiving! Make beautiful memories....

Rachelle - So Fabuluxe!

Friday, October 2, 2009

It's Harvest Time: Luxury Gifts for Giving


{So FabuLuxe!} Lifestyles ~ In the Pink

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, this is a reminder to you and the women in your life to practice monthly breast self-examinations, and get an annual mammogram if you're over 40 years of age. For more information on prevention, awareness and the cure, please see this site: http://www.breastcancerawareness.com/


{Couture Candles & Luxury Soaps - It's time to Give Carved Solutions!}

This year when making out your gift list, don't forget to add a gift from Carved Solutions. Fabulous and personalized gift presentations to represent your business, home or family & friends. A perfect wedding or welcome gift solutions. Our choice for eco-chic! Lots of Pizzazz!



Carved Solutions is a family owned company based in Vermont whose only goal is to make personal gifts personal again. Eco-friendly soaps and candles - Carved Solutions is the proud home of the original 100% palm wax, personalized, custom carved candle. Each hand-poured natural candle is scented with an infusion of pure essential oils. Created with unbleached, all cotton wicks to be safe for you and the environment. No paraffin wax & virtually soot-free!



{Haute Chocolatines...What a Sweet Deal!}

Taste the Look of CHOCOUTURE - where chocolate meets couture -

Edible Diamond Chocolates.

If you love giving tasteful indulgences for weddings and events, get ready to fall in love with luxury Chocolatines.



The luster of the white gold illuminates the radiance of each inimitable 100 percent sugar diamond. Savor the scintillation as the Champagne ganache slowly sweeps your palate.


Celebrate with sparkling white chocolate hearts reflecting a perfect union. Signature Collection Print a personalized message, a monogram or even the names of the bride and groom on luxury chocolates. Chef Rieko Wada, Chicago-based chocolatier created Chocolatines with the vision of chocolates that reflect masterful artisry and leave an impression beyond the palate.

http://www.chocolatines.com/events.htm See their beautiful work of art!

{Fabulous luxury ~ Shoe Bling ~Di Kuza Couture}

Couture Bridal Collections is a high-end, luxury special occasion and bridal shoe collections located right here in Los Angeles. Dikuza Couture's one-of-the-kind custom made bridal heels can be dressed with wedding gowns, all handcrafted in the USA. See their site of beautiful collections: http://dikuza.com/

















Hope you enjoy these fabulous finds!
{So FabuLuxe!} Couture. Luxury. Lifestyle
Happy Fall!

Monday, August 24, 2009

Green Lifestyles of the Eco-Luxe and Fabulous!


I found a few fabulous eco-luxe sites I would to share with my fab followers. As Americans are becoming enviromentally conscious about keeping our earth free of air pollutants, pesticides, harmful cancer causing chemicals from our waters and fabrics we should all do our part to keep the green initiative growing "green". It's not just a trend ...it's a lifestyle!

{Fabulously Green ~ Couture}


So Fabuluxe!™ is a couture lifestyle design firm, we offer the total "event experience" designing couture. luxury. and lifestyles. Our fabulous invitations and one-of-a-kind event pieces are designed to create memorable life celebrations. http://www.so-fabuluxe.com/
We our passionate about individuals. Our main mission is to provide timely event solutions to promote healthy lifestyles and clean environments. We've made a conscious decision to go green by bringing environmental awareness and sustainable style to life. We are fully committed to utilizing sustainable and recycled products and materials for all of our event designs. We have spotlighted some of the best producers of eco-couture, eco-luxe designers, featuring eco-chic invitations, eco-couture wedding gowns, eco-friendly event designs and decor for healthy living and life!


{Eco-luxurious handbags}

Fest your eyes on this haute little number by Vegan Queen, Mini Diamond bag designed for the Fashionistas who love luxury with a sustainable approach, featuring 100% organic cotton terry lining, VQ nickel-free zipper, antique brass-finish hardware & VQ-engraved crest medallion.


Vegan Queen is commited to promoting a luxurious healthy lifestyle while ensuring a sustainable future.


(photo courtesy of Vegan Queen)










{Green Weddings: Eco-Couture Wedding Gowns}

Adele Wechsler, Couture Fashion Designer, Eco-Friendly fabrics


The Eco-Couture Collections are designed “for the bride who cares about the world in which she lives.”
http://adelewechsler.com/latest/ecocouture.html








{Eco-Chic Invitations}


Catherine Saunders principle of GREENFINGERPRINT is an eco-friendly written communications company committed to designing modern invitations, announcements and personal stationery printed exclusively on 100% post-consumer recycled and tree-free paper. They offer a stylish, chic and elegant collection of couture wedding invitations and announcements made from tree free papers. Selections vary from subtle glitter in recycled paper to handmade all-natural botanicals.
Be happy and live well.
So Fabuluxe!